MindsetWhat Success Really Means (and How to Define Yours)
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If we were catching up over coffee, this is what I'd tell you. Updated every few months.
This is a "now" page. Instead of a list of everything I've ever done, it's a short snapshot of what I'm paying attention to right now. I update it every few months, so it's a bit like a letter to whoever happens to stop by.
01 · Focus
For a long time, my default answer to a new idea or a new opportunity was yes. More projects, more calls, more plans. It felt productive. It mostly made me busy.
These days I'm doing the opposite. I've been cutting back on commitments that looked good on paper but didn't really matter, so I can give more time and attention to the few things that do. Deep, focused work in the mornings. Fewer meetings. More time with the people closest to me.
It's harder than it sounds. Saying no to good things so you can say yes to great ones takes practice. I'm still practicing.

02 · Reading
I try to always have one book on the go, and I read most nights before bed. On the nightstand at the moment:

Oliver Burkeman
An honest, refreshingly calm book about time. The main idea: you'll never get everything done, so choose what matters on purpose.

Marcus Aurelius
Again. I come back to it every year, and it reads differently every time.

Peter Attia
On living longer and staying healthy while you do. It's changed how I think about training for the long run.

03 · Training
Strength training three times a week, usually early in the morning before the day gets loud. On the other days, a long walk, a game of tennis or padel, or some easy cardio.
The goal isn't to look a certain way. It's to feel strong, sharp and steady for the next 30 years, not just the next 30 days. I've found that the days I train are almost always my best working days too.
04 · Learning
Two things at the moment:
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Telling a clear story in fewer words, and getting comfortable with silence instead of filling it.
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Putting thoughts on paper is the best way I know to find out whether I actually understand something. The blog is part of that.
05 · Habits I'm working on
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Before the phone comes out. Coffee, a notebook and a rough plan for the day.
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It's always the first thing to go when life gets busy, and the first thing I notice when it does.
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What went well, what didn't, and one thing to do better tomorrow.
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Harder than I'd like to admit.
06 · What I'm saying no to
07 · Writing
New articles on the blog every few weeks, on success, health, time and money. Plain-spoken and backed by research. If one of them helps you think a little more clearly, that's the whole point.
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